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In my last blog we discussed the idea of how to make your wife happy. Insert obvious joke here. We introduced the topic of Attention, including Undivided Attention (no tv, no cell phones, no electronic devices of any kind), and Assuming the position (sitting close to your wife, arms and legs uncrossed, while maintaining eye contact). Explanations and the importance of these can be found in my previous blog. Homework was give to practice 2 minutes of Undivided Attention e
In my last blog we discussed the findings from my interviews and counseling with many couples. To bring you up to speed, here’s what we found. Men and women are, DIFFERENT!!! Not even within the same solar system, different. Women defined themselves as ‘Relationship Beings’, meaning that the essence of who they are is built around their relationships. Men, on the other hand, are not (Relationship Beings). The problem here is that you now have a ‘Relationship Being’ in t