LOVE, ATTACHMENT & INDEPENDENCE
When we feel generally secure, that is, we are comfortable with closeness and confident about depending on loved ones, we are better at...
HOW TO HAVE A GOOD FIGHT: PART II
We now know that conflict in your relationship is not bad. In fact, with the right approach, fighting with your partner can bring you...
WHEN LAUNDRY ISN'T JUST ABOUT THE LAUNDRY
Conflict is bad. This seems to be a universal truth. But let me fill you in on a little secret. This is not true. Conflict is not bad....
THE GOLDEN TOOLS FOR COMMUNICATION
Here’s what I know for certain. 85% of all couples who come to see me struggle with communication. Here’s why. Men and women are,...
WHAT WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MEN
I seriously hesitated in writing this blog because I could foresee controversy and some taking offense to these words. It gave me pause...
COMPLETING THE TOOLS FOR ATTENTION
Welcome back! To bring you up to speed, here’s what you’ve missed. A HAPPY WIFE = HAPPY LIFE. When do you make your wife happy? ALL...
MAKING HER FEEL LIKE SHE'S #1
In my last blog we discussed the idea of how to make your wife happy. Insert obvious joke here. We introduced the topic of Attention,...
TOP THREE TOOLS FOR SHOWING ATTENTION
In my last blog we discussed the findings from my interviews and counseling with many couples. To bring you up to speed, here’s what we...
THE MOST IMPORTANT STEP TO UNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER
To say that relationships are difficult is an understatement. As a psychotherapist and couples counselor over the past decade, I have...
